~ Season, Reason or a Lifetime
I’m having some downtime right now, not with some piece of hardware but with myself, things are not going the way i want them to, and for those who read this i say:
People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take
a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFE TIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life!











September 22nd, 2007 at 8:20 am
I have to agree.
September 22nd, 2007 at 8:51 am
That was so unusual my lifetime friend; so wise.
September 22nd, 2007 at 10:12 am
Sounds like Ecclesiastes, Bakkouz, a time for every purpose under heaven. May God be near and real as you go through the processing of pain.
September 22nd, 2007 at 10:47 am
Cool ,
and nice :D
Love it …
September 23rd, 2007 at 2:53 am
I’ve heard this one many times through the years and benefit from it each time. I’ve been so blessed with reason, season, and lifetime friends. But, in reality, every friendship takes work… :) Thanks for sharing.
September 23rd, 2007 at 7:56 am
Thanks everyone
September 23rd, 2007 at 5:06 pm
“Season, reason or lifetime” love it!
September 23rd, 2007 at 5:29 pm
allah yer7amha, I’m sure she’s in better place now.